tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4092317326958801500.post7366351967106033603..comments2023-07-07T02:10:18.473-07:00Comments on Urban Village Midwife: Then I lost me...Hakima Tafunzi Paynehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15766702314998159529noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4092317326958801500.post-91230130076643363312014-08-18T10:37:24.960-07:002014-08-18T10:37:24.960-07:00Thank you for your kind words. I am familiar with ...Thank you for your kind words. I am familiar with CUB and have been referred to a birthmother yahoo group which I find very beneficial. I did not know that reunion would upend my whole world, but it has. I know I will find my way back in time. I am happy to take a look at your blog. Thanks for reaching out.Hakima Tafunzi Paynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15766702314998159529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4092317326958801500.post-42404207724315291632014-08-12T12:01:02.132-07:002014-08-12T12:01:02.132-07:00Dear Sherry, After reading this post and your prev...Dear Sherry, After reading this post and your previous one, it's as though the last 20 years have dropped away. I have had my son in my life for more than two decades (we reunited when he was 21) but I am right here with you reliving the intensity of those immediate post reunion days. The turmoil has settled for me, but questions and feeling do arise still. I most certainly DO question adoption. We have to, I feel. I'm wondering if you know about Concerned United Birthparents. I have learned so much from them, and gotten support beyond measure from the meetings. Thinking of you. If you'd like another birthmother to talk to, I'd be happy to chat. I'm not sure if you will see my email as a result of this post, but if you like, you can visit my blog, Birthmother (there are a couple by that name, but my full name is on my site) and I think we can get in touch through there. Take care.Denise Emanuel Clemenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10982725113569943337noreply@blogger.com